Last night at 2am, myself received an SMS ...a bitter SMS...a hateful one..
This individual, whom I have no issues, except for his snobbish attitude (in which I couldn't care less..),wants to have a table-talk or so to speak with myself.And this was two (2) days ago...
Admittedly,I was late as I'm amongst another set of friends 35km away...
Then came a call, a friend, telling me to come a bit later or wait for his signal...
Why??
Becoz the individual was ranting about and apparently showing his dipleasure of me towards my friends there...the individual even roped in 2 friends from the circle to gang up on my friends...
When I reached there,the 1st person I approached was the individual...hands shake...and enquire about the displeasure the individual harboured towards me...
As normal,1st thing 1st, asked what seems to be the problem...
The individual rants about my statement and what I meant by it....
To me,it is a general statement I made...not aimed at anyone...and certainly no hidden agenda...to me (and to most of my friends) it is likened to 'siapa makan cili,dia terasa pedas.....
With these, the individual shuts down...even the honchos shuts too...
Then I raised my concern regarding the individual's action of late...which brings disrepute amongst friends....ask asked for the individual's good judgement to reconsider...again met with silence...
Then 2 days later...the SMS came...at 2am...voicing the individual's unhappiness of my approach..and insults were thrown to add some spice..
..hmmm...last I checked, I'm being subtle and factual when the table-talk happened...
Even other friends there thought I'm gonna lose it because this individual was quite aggresive before this and in nature....
...hmmmm again...am I supposed to have a SOP when dealing with this particular individual?
and hmmm...am I supposed to sugar coat my words to his taste bud?
and yes, hmmmm....am I supposed to not tell the individual the actual facts...
And I chose to ignore the SMS ....because:
1) I do not want to worsen what it is now...
2) I want to have a clear conscience
3) Not worth my time
4) Not worth dwelling
5) and most importantly...WHO IS HE???
With these, I've to concur with the opinion of the rest regarding this individual attitude (although I hate to generalising people)....
hmmm...what to do...??
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my very wise teacher once told me - a sign of intelligence is to know when to shut the hell up. Obviously the person you're talking about is not one of those people. that's ok babe. leave them be. your intelligent friends know who's right.
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